More on BDSM

Dangerous people in BDSM.
Theres this misconception that BDSM play is somehow done by force, and to a newbie who is witnessing a Dom dragging his sub around by her hair, it may seem hugely alarming and violent. What the newbie may not realise, that the scene they have just witnessed, is carefuly choreographed, and that the Dom and sub have been doing it for years, and the Dom knows exactly how far that he can take it. The danger arises when a Dom who is new to the scene and figures that if Bob can drag his sub round and treat her the way he saw him doing, then he can do the same to his sub. Thats how bones get broken.

It irks me in a huge way when I hear people in church condemming those who choose to live a D/s lifestyle, or to have an involvement in the BDSM scene as being dangerous, or unfit parents. I met many in the scene who had 1 or more children, and their kids were healthy welbalnced children, who did well at school, some were doing well in the work place. Come to think of it, for the most part, their parents did such a good job of keeping their activities seperate, that they didnt know that anything was amiss.

God in the bible talks abot sin, and how it seperates us from being in a right relationship with him. Okay so I havent read the whole bible yet, though I seriously doubt that there is anywhere in the bible, where God tells his people that sexual sins are worse than other sins. That he can forgive a normal sin, but for a sexual sin, its going to be an extra time spent in purgatory

Blah!!! People are selective in teaching what they want to teach. Mr Tamaki is a good example of that... "I wouldnt be scared walking tinto a witches coven". well Mr Tamaki, if you went with the same approach that you take today, towards Gays and other minority groups, they would eat you alive (and no I dont mean literally)